Psych Types

Control Freak

CF phsychology is that of a monk who lived in a convent all his life, then all of a sudden gets out. They controlled all their emo, lived with discipline, now they are out in a world of lots of choice. Their path is to deal with that, cant go back to convent, can't control, obviously you need to control some aspects of your life.. they need to find a middle ground, and learn to let go.

High Horse

HH is a king / queen who should not be. The hidden desire is to be loved, madly, by people, and by a significant other, while this happens they want to be at the center stage, they get all this looove, adulation, they're under the spotlight, there are all these idiots around clapping madly, it's like so awesome.

But this is exactly what they need to get away from. HH needs to connect to others, noticing others' importance, and try to make decisions that are optimal for the group. See the equality in men. An oft observed attribute of this profile is a want for excessive risk taking, in gambling, in love, or in other areas (I guess the way a king would). There are melodramatic tendencies, can also display arrogant responses, but don't be confused, they will largely stem from fear. So; wanting to be loved, be affirmed, while wanting to feel special is an inborn feature, also the negative direction.

I Am CRM

They need to listen, and approach issues from a thought framework, in a conceptual way. They should not trust their gut as a default position. Trying to make others laugh is useful for them as it increases their relation with the other and helps them connect. I have to say in a chaotic day and age their negatives could be helpful. The world is suffering from info-overload, over-connectivity... But since IAC at a normal setting does not hear a freaking word you say, half the time, they can avoid some of that chaos. If they manage to listen too, selectively, in a productive manner, which they would have learned early-on anyway, they would have a leg up on most other types. As it stands today, politics is full of them: W, Gore, Clinton, Trump are all IaC. I am not saying all of these ppl were examplary at their jobs, but they managed to climb to the top, perhaps helped by their type.